The tried and true way to wholly surrender to your pleasure is to realize that no one gives it to you.⁣⁣ I feel more sexually vital right now than I ever have before and it’s happening at a time when I’m not currently sexually active. ⁣⁣
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How is that possible?⁣⁣
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Because it’s the first season of my life that I’ve taken true ownership of my own pleasure. My own whole life turn-on. And the reason it’s been so powerful is because those things weren’t ever sourced outside of me to begin with — I just only recently realized it! This alone has empowered my relationships, deepened my sensuality, and enabled me to make life-giving choices that are aligned with the health of my mind-heart-yoni. ⁣⁣
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I realized that I can exchange sexual energy with men without ever touching them. And because of that I now enjoy a consistent presence of strong admirable men who are in my life for genuine reasons — which turns out is way more fulfilling than getting lost in toxic cycles of pleasing, performing, and projecting.⁣⁣
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I also learned to savor the pleasure available in longing itself — the delicious suspense that awakens when we embody a desire that’s unfulfilled. More often than not, the capacity of pleasure available to us in yearning is far greater than the pleasure available to us in satiation. Desire is the divine spark that drives all of life! Stop trying to end it through denial or indulgence, and let that good shit run through your body!⚡️💆‍♀️🌪
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Fulfillment and satisfaction are mostly superstitions anyhow. Every bit of bliss you experience is just a taste or glimpse to enthrall you deeper into a pleasure that is infinite. A pleasure that no one else can give you. A pleasure that is your origin.⁣⁣
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So how will you lean into your longings today?⁣ Share with me in the comments below. 👇✨⁣

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